Rough Romping.

By *sTiLeTTa*


Romper.

Doesn't have the most pleasant sound to it, does it. And what's more, (for me), images of babies crawling around in one-piece jumpers/ coveralls immediately flood my thoughts. Why would anyone over the age of 9 months want to make a fashion statement with that.

According to wikipedia, a romper suit is: "a one-piece garment worn by children and sometimes women." Key words: SOMETIMES WOMEN. A little history for you ladies, too: "rompers appeared in the United States of America in the early 1900s. They were very popular as playwear for younger children because people thought they were ideal for movement."

Hmmm. Where and when did the romper-suit evolve to a stylistic element of the more mature, female wardrobe? And riddle me this-- what elements make the romper stylistically acceptable and eye-catching to the well-seasoned fashionista?

Well, perhaps it creates a well-bonded silhouette. No breaks. No loose ends. A defined waistline that hits higher on the midframe, creating a naturally thinner and elongated appearance. Who would object to such a blessing??

Maybe the piece is seen by some as impossible to pull off (figuratively AND literally, but the former being more crucial). That alter-ego might be whispering, "Only lanky model-y girls can work the romper suit..." I shall beg to differ.  If you are brave enough to prove such stigmas wrong and walk out the door with a flare of confidence, knowing that you are donning something a bit out of the ordinary, all the power to ya sister. Do yo thang.   Work. It.  That confidence and small step out of ~le comfort zone~ will exude in each step, and people will not only notice such energy, but how fascinatingly unique such an outfit is.

Whoever said that fashion does not repeat itself was delirious. In the case of the romper, I never thought I would be able to buy an item of clothing that too closely resembled something we wore when all we knew how to do was babble, drool, and scratch an awful diaper rash.

I was a victim of thinking the above stereoptypes. Until tonight. That's right, I can now declare to the world that I...Own... A Romper. (Does that make me a rompee?) Who knows. But I know one thing: I will go to bed tonight with a strange feeling of accomplishment and a subtle boost of self-confidence, and I like that.

Is How You Act in Public...How You Behave Indoors?

By CoutureJive


This afternoon I sat at the local Dean & Deluca enjoying an iced Kombucha reviewing the next literary critique.  I was lucky (because I can write about this) to overhear the ill conversation of three ladies who's toxic words sounded more like warfare against the world instead of a lady-like productive conversation.

 

I mentioned this experience to a gentleman friend, he responded: "When are women's conversations ever productive?"  


Although I was a bit bothered by the remark since I found this irreverence towards a woman's public ability and personal manners so backwards macho 80's thinking...at the same time, I realized...he may just have a point.  


When are women's conversations productive?  Why is it that so many of us resort to pouting and talking bad about others behind their back, instead of choosing civility and kindness with one another?  That girl you don't like may just end up being your best friend.

I decided to stay longer and perform a mini study on society reflecting on the behavior of all women around me.  


The women sitting behind me cackled loudly, it sounded like a mob of chickens running for something.  Yet, there they were, sitting and getting louder and louder by the second.  By the way ladies you're not supposed to cackle loudly in a quiet place where people are enjoying a nice  afternoon.  You never know if prince charming is sitting next to you in utter disgust.


Another young woman in her late twenties, grabbed a chair and instead of making the small effort to lift it, she insensitively interrupted the serenity of the soothing music and fresh breeze...  


(High Pitched Screech!)


...she dragged this metal chair across a stone floor and I watched (what I assume to be) an eighty year old retiree cover her ears and nod her head in disapproval of the unbearable sound this metal chair made against a brick floor.  Then this young woman, (obviously a professional by the looks of her attire) proceeded to looking at the old woman and saying: "What lady!".  Ladies, another tip, respect for the elderly is forever king, in our case, queen.

 

Then I observed a girl of college age sitting on her chair, intently reading a book chewing on her gum.  But when I mean chewing, I mean, CHEWING.  Pop.  


Pop.  
                Pop.  I was watching a mountain goat in action.  Her gum then gets stuck to her chin, grabs her hands and puts it in her mouth.  Continues chewing...


Thinking that no one was watching her, tiring of the flavor probably...she slowly slipped the chewy green piece of gooey saliva puss...right under the table she was sitting in.  


I watched in horror and felt my eyebrows rise above my Burberry glasses.  I could not help to bring my sun protective contraptions down to my nose and think....Lady like behavior?  I wonder if she puts gum under her nightstands.  Perhaps there's gum in her couch or under her living room centerpiece table.

 

What stories of unlady-like horrors do you have to share?  If the person was your friend, didd you call them out?


Add to the conversation and help bring civility, manners and being a glamorous lady back in style!

Some Say It's A Fetish...

By *sTiLeTTa


Some say it’s a fetish...others say, it’s an obsession.  

Me?  

I say it’s an infatuation, an insatiable desire, a craving to find a perfect pair of pumps that will transform not only my outfit but also my entire feminine character for the evening.

(romantic sigh goes here)

Dear reader:  I. Love. Shoes. (another romantic sigh goes here)

What is it about this particular fashion item that becomes so irresistible for so many ladies?  

Shoes can always make your outfit, regardless of how dull we are feeling.  But...if we add a pair of vibrantly colored pumps to that gray outfit…voila!  Transformation!   

By giving an appearance of height, heels have the power to slim women a few inches, not to mention the confidence we emit when we wear heels it really is as if we are on top of the world (because guys sometimes on heels we are just plainly looking down at you).

From time to time, we all have that voice inside our heads that whispers:

a.     you’re too fat!

b.     You’re not pretty!

c.      You’re too fat and not pretty to wear those shoes!

Say to the voice…lies!

You know how they say beauty is in the eye of the beholder? 

Well, the beauty of your shoes begin with a lady’s taste in footwear.  During the selection process, the creativity in our shoes works its way up into a coherent and functional outfit showcasing our professionalism as professional women in a man's world (grr), and exhibiting the soft femininity in our hearts through our feet, unraveling us as what we ultimately are in a barefoot nature: true beauties.

So ladies, next time you hesitate on adding one more pair of shoe to your collection remember this:  the purchase of your dazzling heels stimulates the economy.  

Don't wait! 


Go treat yourself to those adorable pair of Gucci heels, or simply embellished flats!  Let them shine on your feet and feel good about it because you're generating commerce for retailers!  Remember to master the art of dancing in them, and go volunteer in your new shoes! 








Send us a photo of your cute new heels info@couturejive.com

 

Pictured above: Gucci "Sigrid" high-heeled sandal with crystals. cobalt blue suede. back zip closure. leather sole. 4.1" heel. $1195.  Red Heels, RedVelvet Garden Store on Etsy.

In Delicacy

By Lucy Chase


Style and Class lie in the essence of a woman's name...so use your online name right and make sure you don't give off the wrong idea with it!

Cover Up Honey! And Get Rid of Those Clothes-They Don't Fit!

By CoutureJive


On another note of importance, I have observed that women are inappropriately wearing pieces of clothing that are not suitable for their age.  What in the world inspires ladies of today to showcase pieces of clothing that are either too "teeny boppy" or blouses and dresses with small details such as over sized plastic buttons, lace, over sewn lines or thick zippers that are straight out of the "breakfast club" film?

The purpose of this blog isn't fashion policing, but seriously ladies, how can you not tell that those shorts are too short for your legs when you have a bit more weight on you?  Must you really wear that blouse showing off ridiculous amount of cleavage that make your unfit figure look bigger?  I am sorry to break it to you madam but those stretch marks on your breast and the tip of your mammary organ peaking out of your bra is not appealing--and definitely not classy.


Ladies, cover up a little, leave some skin for a man to imagine your soul in his heart.


You will be highly respected by the other sex, not to mention that your chances of meeting Mr. Right looking classy, are much higher in the future mother in law book than looking like a floozy in a one night "hook-up" encounter with Mr. Wrong.


Photo above: Borrowed from the Internet somewhere, intoxicated ladies walking on the streets inappropriately dressed

Rejuvenate Your Style: Fashion with a Heart.

Springtime is here, there's nothing like revamping your look!  How do you begin?


Clean out your closet!


Give away old clothes to shelters that serve indigent homeless family shelter or low-income women who can't afford the luxuries of In Style.


I recommend you donate your items for Dress for Success, this wonderful non-profit serves the needs of women by empowering ladies entering the workforce.  How?  Well participants receive professional training with some office etiquette and best of all, these women receive appropriate office attire (www.dressforsuccess.org) so they are able to achieve an image of professionalism in the workplace.


If your pocket is tight for a large shopping budget and can't afford to give away all of your clothes, try consignment shops, they have a 60/40 split on what they sell for you, and usually you have the option of trading your clothes in for an "upgrade" or best--just take the money and revamp your wardrobe into a simply fresh style of class!

Style Yourself Daily With the 14-Point Rule

Here's the 14 point guideline for dressing yourself in the mornings:


As you style yourself in the mornings, take time for your self and really think of what you are wearing.  Do a mirror assessment of your outfit in front of a large mirror for each piece of clothing/accessory that you are wearing so you can figure out if you are overloaded on your style.


The clothing/accessory point goes like this:


Solid Colors = 1 point
Print = 2 points
Jewelry = 2 points
Flat shoes or heels one color without buckles = 1 point
Flat shoes or heels colorful with details = 2 points
Hair pieces/accessories = 2 points


 For example:
1. Long sleeve striped t-shirt with gold buttons =2 points
2. Plain white tank top = 1 point
3. Dark Blue Jeans = 1 point
4. Leather brown belt with etched brass buckle = 2 points
5. Diamond stud earrings =1 point
6. Decorative ring =2
7. Gray ballerina shoes, one color = 1 point


 Total Style points = 10


We still had an additional four points which could have been allocated for a throw over jacket on top of the outfit (which if flat color it would have been one point), or a set of funky brass bracelets with a fabulous bag.  Remember: If you go above 14 points mark, you are wearing too much.  Remember, use the K.I.S.S. Rule for always looking clean and maintaining a classy style.